To know a person simply is simple. To know a person well can take a lifetime. You need only know a person simply to control them, but you must know a person well to let them control you.
Personal Knowledge:
- interests, idols and social circles are displayed in the selection of material to decorate the walls and desks of living spaces.
- temperament is displayed in the choice of words; it is what they wish for you to perceive of them from how they express their vocal content.
- agendum is displayed in the words themselves; what they wish to know and to be known.
- strength of will and ease of mind are displayed in the how they speak about themselves and how they appear to treat themselves.
-friend lists are arbitrary; judge a person's friends by the attendees at many of their events and the joviality of public comments upon their postings.
- a person's reasonne d'aitre can be very simple. Usually it is either 'living for experiences', 'living to complete a goal', or 'living to maintain and continue dynasty'. If a person claims not to have given it thought, either they are the first, or seeking the second. In this state of seeking they are very susceptible to manipulation, or they will live for self-destruction.
-judge a person's upbringing by socio-economic and cultural (fashion, car and manner of speech), age, teeth and cynicism/agreeability (inherited from difficulty of earlier life/parental outlook). Family and developmental social status can be gathered from responsibility expressed (from requirement to develop skill early on), healthy/excessive dominance/submission (defensive/adaptive to threats (authority based) and social challenges (sibling rivalry, multiplicity).
Manipulative Action
- the confident can be coerced actively; request aid as a subservient so that they may act by expressing ability.
- the meek may be coerced passively; frame a request as a safer, less active of all possible actions. Action must be said to be unavoidable and your request is the most agreeable.
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-always evaluate a comment in regard to the time of posting. Are they likely to be rushed, bored, tired, is it close in time to another post which may impact their personality?
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